Red flags are warning signs that you may or
may not notice when dating someone. These signs may determine whether or not
you have a healthy relationship. Here are a few red flags to look out for in
the earliest stages of a relationship. However, these signs do not mean that
you two should break up. It means that you should be cautious in pursuing a
long term arrangement with that person.
They talk about their exes’
flaws too much and never take responsibility for their failed romance.
Watch out how they interact
with people around them and how respectful they are of others.
Notice if they repeatedly cancel their plans.
People may cancel plans for many reasons but if they do it often, it may mean
that they do not value you as much or may have someone else who has got their
You may have gut feelings that
tell you something is not right. Trust those instincts and talk whatever is
making you uncomfortable out with them.
Mood swings can also be huge
Notice how much value they have
for their job. It is good that someone focuses on their work but if that is the
only thing they focus on instead of other equally important things, it would
also be considered a red flag.